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Non-Fiction
Mid life cry
By lillabetx
15 November 2006
A short piece about the drama of being thirty something!
Can anyone relate to any of it?

Lillbet x

Is this the meaning of a mid-life crisis? Surely I cannot be old enough. It’s not my time yet to be worried about aging parents, the death of a friend, heartbreak from divorce, grief of a miscarriage; worries about ones own health or dramas concerning friends?

                

I can’t remember my childhood nearly as good enough as I should be able to and have no recollection of passing into adulthood either.

 

Since when has a joyful trip to the hairdressers involved choosing the right option to cover my graying hairs as the stylist refers to me as an older client?

 

The words of my father ring out in my ear – the strangest thing about getting old is seeing your face change and wrinkle in the mirror when you still feel so young inside.

 

I am not old. I have plenty of time – to laugh and dance and sing. But the dramas of life are getting in my way. Somewhere along the road my parents have become my children yet I have no children of my own.

 

And when exactly did I change my view on bedtime?
 I used to protest about going to bed early and now I cannot wait! My first thought on waking is how I want to go back to sleep!

 

How is it that Christmas is just around the corner again and I am dreading it rather than wishing it nearer?

 

The more I find out about myself the less I know – I didn’t see that one coming.

 

Where is the girl who believed in romance and love at first sight?

Oh I remember now! I am here, recounting the tale of the man I once married after knowing him for less than a year. He was the one alright – the one who turned out to be an alcoholic. It was a rollercoaster alright – he gave me the ride of my life!

 

It is indeed a rich tapestry, unraveled and patched up – over and over again.

 

So – it’s a mid-life crisis. It will pass soon enough. Hold on and hold tight!

 

Who knows what the future may bring?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Reviews
Been there -
Written by Josie (2825 comments posted) 15th November 2006
But it's difficult to give other people advice. What was difficult for me was also to lose my father, have a mother who became brain damaged as a result of a horrific accident, move to another part of the country where I knew no-one, lose the work I enjoyed, and see my daughter leave home. All change and then depression. But what got me through was not to look inward at myself, but look around in my new community and see others who needed help - and I did voluntary work in various fields, which took me out into the community. By looking outward I looked inward less, made good friends and moved on. It may help - or it may not. I hope it does.

Written by Snodlander (507 comments posted) 15th November 2006
I had my first mid-life crisis round about 21. I have had minor ones regularly since then, culminating in a two-week depression this year. It's natural. When we are 10 a year is a 10th of our life. When we are 50 it a mere 2%. We all regret some decision or other back down the track, play 'what if'. Josie is right. It's happened. It'll happen again. Roll with it, enjoy the moment. Introspection only feeds it.

Written by Phil (6836 comments posted) 15th November 2006
Getting old is a bummer, but there's nothing you can do about it. Things get me down, some the same as you, but tomorrow is always another day. (trite but true) 
 
All the best, 
 
Phil.

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