I wish I could fairly review this, but only a few days ago I found out that a friend had been bullied by her boyfriend for 4 years (she lives in another country so I could only ever talk to her online really, met her twice, met the guy once). I found out how complex a psychological a process it is, how a man's behaviour can work. He guilted her during the nice behaviour phase so that he could get access to her bank accounts then began taking money out to fund his poker and cannabis addictions. He isolated her from her friends and family so he'd have her to himself, then he began treating her like a servant. Then he became violent and threw things at her, knocked her out once. She has left him, and he is trying to pin the cost of 1500+ bills on her and has taken everything expensive that she paid for, and left her 1000+ in debt. It scares and horrifies me that a person could be so cruel and could have pretended to be so nice to everyone else.